A legal analysis of Re J (Surrogacy: Adoption Order) [2025] EWHC 2960 (Fam)

A legal analysis of Re J (Surrogacy: Adoption Order) [2025] EWHC 2960 (Fam), focusing on the court’s reasoning, the risks identified by the judge, and its wider implications for surrogacy law and practice.
1. Overview of the case
In Re J (A Child) (Surrogacy: Adoption Order) [2025] EWHC 2960 (Fam), Ms Justice Henke described the proceedings as a “cautionary tale” illustrating what can go wrong when strangers meet through social media to pursue surrogacy arrangements and take risks around conception.
The case concerned J, a child aged approximately 2½ years, whose early life had been overshadowed by protracted and highly complex litigation. The proceedings were significantly prolonged because the parties misled the court about genetic testing, undermining trust, delaying welfare decisions, and complicating the legal route to securing J’s permanent family placement.
Ultimately, the court made an adoption order, notwithstanding that adoption is generally regarded as a last resort in family law.
2. Factual background
a. Informal, unregulated surrogacy
- The surrogacy arrangement was informal and privately arranged, with the parties having met via social media.
- There was no robust legal or professional framework governing the arrangement.
- Decisions around conception were taken without sufficient regard to:
- future legal parenthood,
- evidential clarity (particularly genetics),
- or the child’s long-term welfare.
b. Misleading the court
A critical feature of the case was that one or more parties provided misleading information to the court about genetic testing. This had serious consequences:
- It delayed the determination of who was genetically related to the child.
- It obstructed the court’s ability to assess:
- parental responsibility,
- lawful routes to parenthood (parental order vs adoption),
- and the child’s welfare.
- It fundamentally undermined the integrity of the proceedings.
Ms Justice Henke treated this conduct as a grave matter, emphasising the court’s reliance on honesty in cases involving children.
3. Legal framework
a. Surrogacy and parental orders
Under English law:
- Surrogacy arrangements are not enforceable.
- The surrogate is the child’s legal mother at birth.
- Intended parents usually seek legal parenthood via a parental order under the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act 2008, provided strict criteria are met, including:
- a genetic connection,
- proper consent,
- and compliance with statutory time limits.
In this case, the misleading evidence about genetics fatally undermined the possibility of a lawful parental order.
b. Adoption as a last resort
Adoption represents a complete legal severance from a child’s birth family and is permissible only where:
- nothing else will meet the child’s welfare needs, and
- it is necessary and proportionate.
The court was therefore required to confront whether, despite the surrogacy context, adoption had become the only viable route to provide J with legal security and permanence.
4. The court’s reasoning
a. Welfare as the paramount consideration
Ms Justice Henke reaffirmed that J’s welfare throughout his life was the court’s paramount consideration. By the time of the final hearing:
- J was already 2½ years old.
- He required certainty, stability, and legal clarity.
- Further delay would have been positively harmful.
The court was clear that the litigation itself had already caused unacceptable delay in securing permanence.
b. Consequences of dishonesty
A central theme of the judgment is that:
- Misleading the court in children proceedings can radically alter outcomes.
- The parties’ conduct had:
- closed off less interventionist legal routes,
- necessitated greater state and judicial intervention,
- and directly contributed to adoption becoming unavoidable.
The judge’s description of the case as a “cautionary tale” is directed not only at the parties, but also at others contemplating informal surrogacy arrangements.
c. Why adoption was justified
The court concluded that:
- No lawful parental order could now be made.
- There was no alternative order that could provide J with:
- secure legal parenthood,
- stability,
- and protection from further litigation.
- Adoption, though drastic, was necessary and proportionate in J’s best interests.
The adoption order was therefore made not because adoption was ideal, but because every other route had been rendered unworkable.
5. Key themes and principles
The judgment reinforces several important principles:
- Surrogacy without safeguards carries profound risks
Particularly where parties are strangers and arrangements are made online. - Honesty with the court is non-negotiable
Misleading evidence can fundamentally reshape a child’s legal future. - Delay is inimical to welfare
The court will not permit procedural confusion to deprive a young child of permanence. - Adoption can arise in unexpected contexts
Even in surrogacy cases, adoption may become the only lawful solution.
6. Wider significance
This case has broader importance for:
- Practitioners advising on private surrogacy arrangements.
- Intended parents relying on informal or international conception methods.
- Courts grappling with the intersection between surrogacy law and adoption law.
It sends a clear warning that cutting corners at the outset of surrogacy arrangements may lead to the most intrusive outcome possible.
7. Conclusion
Re J (Surrogacy: Adoption Order) [2025] EWHC 2960 (Fam) stands as a stark reminder that child-focused transparency and legal foresight are essential in surrogacy cases. Ms Justice Henke’s judgment makes clear that where adults take risks, mislead the court, or fail to plan lawfully, the consequences may fall irreversibly on the child—and the court will act decisively to secure that child’s welfare.
For family law advice and family court representation, contact Stephanie Heijdra family law barrister via sheijdra@winvolvedlegal.co.uk.








